To the man or woman into vanilla-sex only, the world of kink looks mighty hardcore sexual. But for the guy or girl who likes to play with fetish, exercise some of their BDSM interests, sometimes kink is just about kink and though decidedly erotic, they might not even be interested in the free sex that might come from their play. (more…)
One night stand
There is always so much said about how friends cannot become lovers without creating all sorts of epic drama. It is just assumed that relationships are going to be fundamentally altered if the lines cross in these situations. A majority of the time, this is actually the case. Every now and then, though, there are certain people who do not seem to possess the same DNA as the rest of us. They start as friends, then for whatever reason have sex with each other one day, but miraculously manage to go on about their lives as if nothing ever changed. They are so rare that they almost merit being studied by psychologists.
Just a few short decades ago, even the idea of a lonely hearts ad in a newspaper was almost unheard of. Most people would have found that concept to be quite scandalous and terrible, as we would be exposing ourselves to the contact of random strangers. Today, not only are there tons and tons of online dating sites, but there are also even Sex personals sites where we can meet people for the express and specific purpose of hooking up with them.
Most of us are quite familiar with the old and hackneyed expression stating that one good turn deserves another, and if we stop and think about it, it really is quite true. When we do something kind for someone else, it is that much more likely that they will be willing to return the favor to us at some point in the future.
Are you single and looking for something to add to your romantic toolbox? Are you already in a relationship and looking to spice things up? Or are you just dating and looking for more fun stuff to do when you meet friends and hang out? Try shopping online. You heard it right, shopping online. If your with friends you can look for cool new games or the flashiest new trends. If your with that someone special you could try checking out lingerie or even Sex toys if your brave enough. Shopping online together especially for anything Sex related is a great way to increase that bond and put some spice into things. Your essentially opening up to each other about all the things that excite you and the things that turn you on. Your exchanging ideas about what kind of clothes you find attractive and even what types of looks you find hot. It can definitely get those creative and lusty juices flowing especially when you see how it affects your partner. It’s also a perfect after Sex activity that can be just the thing you need to relight that fire and get things going again.
If you are signing on to an XXX dating site, your goal is quite probably not to get into a loving relationship with someone. Rather, you are likely looking for some quick, easy rough sex to ease your body and mind and lessen your overall stress. Yes, rough sex is definitely a way to forget about a world of problems. You just zone out and almost become somebody else, a darker, kinkier alter ego where nudity and achieving orgasm are the only goals on the agenda. But what sometimes happens in these situations is that either you or the person you invited over wants to stay the night, when the hosting person has no real interest in having you after the rough sex is over. Unless they do want you to stay, but you are the one who wants to flee. You can see the many sticky and awkward scenarios here.
The jury is still out on one fact of our modern sexual natures…are we getting more action, seeing more casual sex or long-term adult dating commitments, because of online dating? We might be dating more, or finding more matches to talk with, exchange emails with, see pictures of-as they see pictures of us-but are we really having more sex because of our access to personals, profiles, adult friend finders, search engines, chats and forums?
In a perfect world, everyone would be able to have XXX sex with the people that they were strongly attracted to whenever they wanted to, but unfortunately it isn’t ever that easy. It seems like there are always complications of some sort that get in the way. Sometimes it’s a lack of mutual attraction, sometimes there are other factors involved that keep people from getting together. (more…)
There are a lot of reasons why people who are in committed relationships may choose to look for XXX friends in order to get some extra sex on the side. In some cases, the relationship is structure in a way that allows them to do just that. While most don’t advertise it, many people are in open or polyamorous relationships that allow them to seek other sexual or romantic partners without it being considered cheating by their significant other.
By now most of us have figured out how to effectively use the Personals that exist online, and we have a pretty easy time going from dating site to dating site and finding people to begin to converse with. Whether we are looking for dating, romance, love or of course our old friend sex, we can browse through more options than most of us would have ever dreamed possible. For many of us it is what we do when we are out on that all important first date that can make the difference. (more…)